well, honest I dont think you should do it, but you'v already heard my opinions. Hope you make the right decision girl. take care.xx

no one can judge you for what your goin through.... no one can say what there goin to do until there put into someone elses shoes.... usely those who judge dont under the circumstance and whats goin on do whats right for you and NO one else

In my opinion i think you should leave abortion outta tha question i mean you could always give your baby up for adoption after its born...its hard im sure especially with everything thats going on but only you kno whats best but i heard from someone "It depends which is more important whats best for you or whats best for your baby" but im sure whatever your descion is itll be the right one!
i hope everything goes ok for you!if you ever need anyone to talk to im always here!!
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I think it has to be totaly your decision! what i will say is if your having any doubts at all that you dont want to have an abortion, then dont do it you have to be 100 percent sure that that is what you want. good luck

Hey I remember you!! We were pregnant a couple years ago together with our little boys. Well, I'm not going to judge you because I know how difficult it is to make this decision. All I can say is don't take it lightly. If you're feeling like you shouldn't do it, then maybe you shouldn't. Just follow your gut instinct and really think about what the best option for you is. Do you have support, and is the father of the baby involved? I'm here for you.

Thankyou for your apology. I can understand because I am now against abortion and get pretty upset if it's brought up, but I'm not going to judge anyone cos that would be hypocritical. I was in a bad place when I wrote posted this and it was hard for me to read it again because obv I have my little boy now, don't really like it all dragging back up. But yeh I kept him and it's all good :)

Ignoring all the ranting, I am in favor of adoption, not abortion. When you adopt, you have the baby's best interests at heart...if you abort, you may THINK you have all the right reasons to do so, but it really comes down to thinking about what is best for YOU. There is a big difference, I can tell you. My son and his girlfriend ( both 15 ) are pregnant and having the baby, deciding on adoption, too. I am so proud of them for making a decision that benefits all involved. There are open-adoptions where you can maintain contact with your child and be part of its growing up...no secrets. I like that...God bless you, honey.

Oh and I wanted to keep my baby, I loved him from the minute I learned of his existence and I would have kept him if I was selfish enough. But his life would have been crappy and I couldn't let that happen to my child. My decision was the exact oposite of selfish.

The UK is a HELL of a lot different for the US. We have very little support for young mums here, especially where I come form. I looked into how I would financially support my child and the only way would have been to get a job and if I got a job who would look after my child? I was not being selfish, I was being realistic.

I completely agree and that's why i say that sometimes it's better for SOME people to get abortions because babies are so innocent and don't deserve anything but happiness. And some people just can't provide that. Anyway, no need to argue about it or call anymore names. You will believe what you will and i will keep my opinions my own. I'm sorry for everything that you have had to go through. I really am. No one deserves to have to experience those things as a child.

What I went through only made me stronger and gave me the motivation to make something out of myself. I got out at 16 and I've been moving forward since. I'm blessed to have what I got and a man that loves me for who I am and has been by my side since the beginning. The miscarriage really hit him hard. He gets drunk almost every night now and cries himself to sleep and I've never seen a man in my whole life that upset...and it breaks my heart that I don't know what to do for him. He scared to even try again cause he don't want to go through this again. So I think next time I won't even tell him until I get passed the first trimester....if I can hide the symptoms that long. But despite all the things I've said on here, I am a believer in God and I trust him to get us through this and when the time comes, he will bless me with another child that I will be able to deliver.