Pregnancy - Teens Support Group

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i saw on tv

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after having to babies you wont be able to enjoy sex as much as you use to i would like to know if thats true it doesnt matter if its exactly to or just 1 baby i mean i would like to know im scared of that ever happening cause i also heard sex is the best form of exercise you burn up to 500 calories in 1 hour its a proven fact ladies but i just wanted to knnow if u stop feeling it after a baby or 2 so yeah let me know
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I really don't think so. I couldn't see that happening. But you can google it and see. I have never heard of anything like this. But I sure hope not though LOL
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I wouldnt say you dont enjoy it. Its rough the first couple times after having the baby, mostly cause your a little dryer than you were at first. But things get better. Maybe the "not enjoying it as much" is cause you dont have the time for it anymore. You cant get into as much knowing that your baby could wake up to eat in any second! Dont worry its not that bad, sex will be far from your mind for a while and as soon as you are ready, youll find it just as great..
PS do your kegels!!!!
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I'm sort of glad someone brought this up. It seems that after Baylie I have no sex drive whatsoever. Its like if Brad touches me it makes me really mad! I hope this gets better soon or my hormones balance out. But I just haven't had any desire at ALL. I don't know if this is normal or not. We haven't had sex since before I had Baylie and she is three months old! One good thing I guess thats not the only reason hes with me! Hah! Poor guy lol.
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Having a baby is a pretty emotional thing, i don't think physically you stop enjoying sex after having a baby, i think its more of an emotional hurdle you have to overcome. Think about it, your body changes SO SO much during pregnancy, and i currently HATE my post pregnancy body, even though i've lost more weight than i had put on, so its more that you don't feel sexy for a while after you have a baby, plus there's so much on your mind, you're keeping an eye on the time to see what you can get done before she wakes up for a feed...i guess, its all about realising that if your man still wants it, he's obviously still attracted to you and thats great! Its just a matter of waiting till your all healed 'down there' and feeling back to your usual self, and then finding peace within yourself to accept your new body, or work on it if your not happy! AND DO YOUR PELVIC FLOOR EXERCISES RELIGIOUSLY!!!
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My boy's two now, when he was first born sex was pretty uncomfortable. All I can say it invest insome lubricant at first atleast!

After about 6 months I think I finally felt (physically) back to normal - but it took another 6 months before i started to enjoy it all again (then again i was wrestling with a bad relationship too).
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