Pregnancy - Teens Support Group
This community is dedicated to the experience of being pregnant as a teenager. Pregnant teenagers face many of the same obstetrics issues as women in their 20s and 30s. However, there are additional medical concerns for younger mothers, particularly those under 15 and those living in developing countries. For mothers between 15 and 19, age in itself is not a risk factor,...
Well, I've just come out of hospital, after being diagnosed with 'Hyperemesis Gravidarum', which is basically severe sickness due to pregnancy and only affects 1% of women. Anyway there is a guy who I met on here, who tried calling me several times, but each time I was very busy having just discovered I was pregnant and trying to sort things out with the baby's dad and my family and uni. Anyway I have received an incredibly abusive message from this man who is obviously upset that I haven't had the chance to talk to him. He mocked my situation, and said something about sticking my frindship (I don't even want to repeat the words) 'up my big fat pregnant ******', I think you get the jist of it. He then posted a journal about how I've 'ruined my life at the tender age of 18'...How dare he be so rude!! If he wants to be narrow minded that is his problem, but slating me for being pregnant is just disgusting,would he think better of me if I'd had an abortion and killed my baby?! This was the last thing I needed after being so ill. And how he can say I've ruined my life I have no idea, he is unemployed and in his late 20s, I will still be going to university afte4r my baby is born, and I will have a beautiful little baby to love. I WILL get a good job, I'm very intelligent and will be attending a good university, and one day I ill get married. I have a very supportive family, he needs to WAKE UP and realise he's more of a failure than I will ever be, Iam so so angry, all this just because I was too busy to speak to him... he needs to get over himself. Sorry guysI'm just fed up of the 'youv ruined your life' comments.I've heard them from others too, that raise of the eyebrow they give me beofre telling me my life is over, and the worst bit is they're so narrow minded they can't even begin to understand that my life is not over!! Sorry I needed to vent I'm actually shaking with anger
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
You should be proud of the decision you made, and the life you are living. This guy has no idea who you are, what is going on, and he has no idea the joys and happiness bringing a child into this world can and will bring for you. Don't pay any attention to people like this, they are all narrow minded and it is certainly not your fault that you understand.
The way I see it, people can say and do and look at me however they want, but I will just stick my nose up at them and be proud of myself for doing the things that I have done, and be proud that I brought such a beautiful being into this world. I don't expect anyone to understand how I feel, or why I made the decisions, and honestly its none of anyones business.
Just be proud to bring this child into this world, and just focus on maintaining yourself and your child, and don't listen to what other people say or do, although yes it is really irritating and frustrating.
It's your life, you made the deicisions, and they have no right to say or do anything to try and hurt you, or even say you have ruined your life. You haven't.