I am super frustrated right now about my care. I lost my baby Grace at 30 weeks pregnant and then found out in August that I was pregnant again. We really struggled with whether or not to stay at the same practice. I could not help but blame them and feel like they missed something (no matter how many unexplained stories I read. I also learned my doctor was not board certified. I new she was young but not that young. I felt like maybe I would be better with someone with more experience. So I switched to a woman recommended to me by three different friends (including one who lost twins and then switched over). To date the doctor has been okay and I have had a 7 week and 12 week ultrasound but they have lost some of my test results, I only saw a technician and not a doctor at the 12 week ultrasound and I still dont have the official results from the first part of the integrated screening (I was promised a letter within 10 days that never came). I finally just emailed my doctor tonight expressing my frustrations. I really feel like I made a bad decision but don't know what to do. I miss my old OB who I could email at anytime and her entire staff knew about my story. But the resume and credentials of this doctor are superior and when I do see her she is incredibely knowledgable. I just dont know what to do.
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