I lost my daughter Amariah in March at 37 weeks. My OB told us that we could start trying again as soon as we thought we were ready but due to some medical problems if I want another baby it may be a good idea to go ahead and get pregnant again. Derek and I haven't exactly been trying but we haven't been doing anything to prevent me getting pregnant and I'm late. I haven't taken a test because number 1 I don't want to get my hopes up. My birthday is Thursday and we're having my niece baptized Sunday so I'm hoping that I can make it through the week period much less pile and negative test on top of that. I haven't even mentioned that I'm late to Derek, he's a firefighter and has been working straight through this whole weekend so I haven't wanted to say anything to him. I don't want to get his hopes up and then tell him I'm not pregnant. I'm so torn between taking a test and not taking one...any advice or similar situations??
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