Ok I went to the doctor and they say everything is fine and that they will test me in my 3rd trimester for icp. He also thinks that I could have had it with Zoe. So what I need advice on is... I do not want to find out what I am having. At least I think I dont.?. My husband says he wants to know, he went to the first appt with this pregnancy today. They gave me an ultrasound just for heartrate and movement. I am really greatful that they have been doing this for me. My husband said that was hard for him just because he wants to think that it is Zoe. He has seemed more distant with this one, but I can not blame him cause I was too. I dont know what to do because I think it would kinda give me extra drive to get through by not knowing and waiting to hear its a.... BUT and that is a big but, what if something was to happen this time around also and I would only know what my baby was for 1 day. My councler says that I need to find out what it is and wait until a next pregnancy for the suprise. I am only 22 and I do want more children after this. When you loose one you realize that it would not be all that bad to have 12. lol. I really do not know what to do. I want to know my babys name for more than 1 day. I think that I think I will not get attached so much if I do not know. But I also know that I am already very attached. I just do not know what to do. Maybe yall can shed some light on this situation for me. I go to find out September 25. I really need yalls input cause yall know more of what is best cause you have been there. Thanks so much in advance. Casey
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