Okay, for those of you who have followed my story, my stbx has entered a new wrinkle. He currently has supervised visits (which according to his attorney is not his fault at all, but rather my anxiety causing the kids to fearful - never mind the fact that he has physically and emotionally abused both kids and possibly sexually abused daughter). Well, today when I took my daughter to visit him his car was nowhere in sight. Then when I went to pick up my daughter, the same red car was parked out front. I noticed the plates were dealer plates. Now I am wondering if he wrecked the car and is using a loaner or if he is test driving cars with the intent of buying. My name is on the loan for the car, so I am wondering if I am entitled to information regarding the wherabouts of said car. There is a no contact order in place so there is no way to ask him directly.
Here is the other part of this puzzling situation. I moved out of the house we rented together and placed his items in the garage for him to get (this was beginning of November). He didn't just take his things out of the garage, though. He took absolutely everything. Most things belonged to the kids. there were old bikes, tents, sports equipment of nearly every variety, and coutless other items. He took everything and has only brought thins for the kids when they have requested them in front of the supervisor. Well, tonight, he brought two big boxes and a trash bag full of items he had picked up from the garage. I brought them home and sorted through it. tere was some trash he added to the collection that I disposed of. Well, there was absolutely nothing that belonged to my daughter. Everything belonged to my son. This may sound paranoid, but I am just going to throw it out there. he stated many times when we wree together that he could disappear with both ids and I would never see them again. He has always favored my daughter and treated her like a princess. My son sees him for the monster he truly is, and wants nothing to do with stbx. So with the new car and the unloading of stuff, I question whether he is planning to kidnap daughter soon. I am terrified, but then I keep wondering if I am being hyper-sensitive. What do you think? Should I be concerned? How concerned? what actions, if any, should I take?