I dont know if this is the right community - but I feel comfortable with all of you so here goes- I am in the middle of a very difficult divorce and child protective services has said along with the courts that my ex is not allowed to see the kids this year- I am ok with this as there has been abuse and I cant deal with it right now- so anyway here is the questions- I have three kids- 5, 8, and 12 - what do I tell them ? How do I let them know he is not coming over ? They are starting to ask and I dont have an answer / or do I ???? What can I say without letting them know about the courts- I have told them he has not been around due to working which is something they have heard so often over the years it is working for now- so Do I use it for the holiday ?????? Please help I am lost and just want to get threw the holidays.
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