Someone from an another support site refereed me to this site, because my Fianc is suffering from very bad PTSD from childhood sexual abuse from her father and Brother. It has come to light when we were together, for there was some memories she was missing, and I am guessing subconsciously her mind let her remember because she felt safe and comfortable with me. It has become worse and worse, where now I cannot even have any contact with her what so ever, and kept being told I just have to wait. She finally is getting help and seeing doctors and getting medicine, but I am very depressed because of the hell she is going through and the intimacy I am missing with her. I told her I would never abandon her and be by her side no matter what, but it is hard when she wants me to do nothing and to leave her alone, and I feel so helpless.I know she loves me, but she also knows she is hurting me, and has told me many times to just forget her and get on with my life, or just go out and meet someone else. This is not the kind of man I am,and I love her very dearly, or we would not be engaged.I have become very depressed, I have not eaten for i think about 6 days, cannot even watch TV, or even leave my house. I cannot even hardly take care of myself, and many times do not shower for three days, and I was always a very clean and trim man. It is breaking my heart, and I do not know what to do, and feel I am failing her as a man, for not being strong enough. The person from the other site said I might be suffering from PSTD from her. I never heard of this. Can this be true?
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