Someone replied to a post of mine ever so rudely... She poked me square in the eye with a sharp stick. She is going to use the owners, developers and any monitors as weapons to beat me up on her way out from this sight. I wish she stick around and learn to be assertive. Move from aggression to being assertive. She could learn a lot in this sight even from the men whom she apparently is not fond of. Maybe she will learn it isnt the world thats going to change but rather it will be her and she will be pleasantly surprised at the rewards waiting for her if she works on her own issues instead of telling others what to do. I know if I am busy with others backyards, my backyard is going to be unattended and nasty. If she learns about other peoples boundaries, she will spontaneously learn about her own. She sure did not give my boundaries any recognition thats for sure.
Oh, for the men thing of hers: It is not that we have to treat men and women actually the same; it is just that we dont have to strive so hard to treat each so differently.