I guess this is sharing and giving my experience today, I found myself in a confrontation at work today with a co-worker. I think I handled it well as I could. Actually I was surprised afterward and I didnt have to allow myself to feel small with this man. I had caught him trying to find reasons to make me look like I was not doing my job and preparing to throw me under the bus. I confronted him and I see it was a good thing, and we were able to work together the rest of the day. I believe he is feeling threatened by my presence as I did his job while he was off on temporary disability and I was placed there temporary. I have been assigned to stay until I get the project complete, since i started it. Maybe a few more months. I also believe that he did not expect me to do so well and perform as well as him or maybe even better. I guess the reason for being asked to stay longer from his supervisor. with that said i know this is only temporary and we have to work together to get this job done, I would much wrather just go back to my old job and be out of his little world. I know that there will be more tomorrow and might expect, but I will continue to use the phrase; help me to help you. It is overall his responsibility, but i am not about to allow him to smear my name for no reason, Maybe he is still trying to impress his boss and prove his worth not really any of my business, I surely am not bucking for his job either, the way i see it, he is threatened, I hope not because that would be a waste of his time. I do not want his job, I have done a similar job in the past and I found out it was not for me, so been there done that, and i like where I am now. Just have to get this project done, I think the way I handled myself was grand and I am proud of it, baby steps.
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