My boyf said he isn't so happy with me anymore because we have only 3 years before we will start trying for a kid and he doesn't think il get to a stable place and be responsible enough for children by then. I don't know what to do, what to say. I've only self harmed once in 6 nearly 7 months. I'm working on me. I'm trying to make decisions that are best for me like stopping therapy because it's not working out and going back to work. I just don't want him to leave me or spending the next three years wondering if il be suitable. :(
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