Just throwing this out for a discussion. How helpful is it to demonise our abusers or ourselves, how helpful to deify our saviours or ourselves. Very few people are completely bad or completely good, should the criteria be just whether that they recognise problems and want to change or fix things or not? I'm not saying people's actions don't sometimes deserve the label but I think the sooner we realise even the worst of us are usually struggling without the proper tools and info needed to cope with life and maybe we are even on this earth to learn lessons from each other. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.
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