Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS) Support Group
Polycythemia is a condition in which there is a net increase in the total circulating erythrocyte (red blood cell) mass of the body. Primary polycythemia occurs when excess erythrocytes are produced as a result of a proliferative abnormality of the bone marrow. Secondary polycythemia is caused by increases of erythropoietin that result in an increased production of...
For those of you who know my story, you know that I just recently finalized my divorce last Wednesday. After nine years, three miscarriages, and irreconcialable differences my husband and his mistress made it apparent to me that it was over. I found out that they are expecting and have posted it all over mutual friends' myspace pages. When I logged in today it auctomatically shows when someone on your friends list has uploaded photos and BAM there it was. The sonogram of their baby boy. My heart sank! I know you all have endured the loss of a preganancy as I have. I feel as though that was supposed to be my life - and SHE'S living it now. I'm desperately seeking guidance from my DS girls. Encouraging words, insight, anything really that someone has said to uplift you. I feel like I'm going thru the pain of miscarriage all over again. My heart is absolutely broken.
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I'm so sorry to hear that. There isn't any advice I can give but my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry...
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Thanks, hun. You're a sweetheart!
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Girl there's a reason for it all cuz one day your are gonna have more then him. You will find the man that treats you like there is no tomorrow. And will uplift you and YOU WILL HAVE BABIES...She maybe living the life you thought you were suppose to have but theres a much better one waiting for you. And maybe he wouldn't be a good father to your children, he didn't appreciate what you had endured with the miscarrages. He was insensitive to the nine years you devoted your life to him. Well guess what for you staying faithful to him and giving your life to him you are going to be rewarded with more then he will ever have HAPPINESS, and when you have a child dont you think for one minute he will be like "that was suppose to be my child with her" Cuz more then anything girl I believe what goes around comes around. He is gonna reap what he sowed so all the pain he put you through. Will come back on him one day and it may not be next week or next year but it will and you are free to enjoy your life. YOU ROCK and dont let anyone tell ya different. Cuz you will have a few of your own one day...pcos isnt a death sentence its just another hurdle in life. Hope the best for ya
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Thanks hun! I appreciate that more than words can say!
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I'm sorry sweetie, sometimes bad things do happen to good people. I wish I could say more to help you but I'm not sure what. Its totally natural though for you to feel this way. When I got seperated from my fiancee before I started dating and married my hubby I found out he cheated and then the girl he was with was pregnant. It broke my heart. But then I went on to marry a wonderful man, and were hoping to have children. God bless!
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Thanks, Mel!
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girl I'm so sorry that really sucks. He is an ex remember that. I focus on the bad things and that helps when you have a situation like that. I always would say well now it's the new girls problem. That always helped me out.
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
