Hi. I do think it is VERY easy for women with PCOS - especially ones undiagnosed to have broken relationships.
I have been married for 8 years and have put my husband through Hell and back the last few before I was diagnosed. I didn't understand what was going on with me. I used to be the most laid back person and then I was overly emotional and angry. Then I would go through periods of depression. We had no idea what was going on. I hated the way he had to walk on eggshells around me. One day he would say something and I would be fine the next day he would say the same exact thing and I would flip. I don't know how he put up with me. Now that I was diagnosed (just on Monday) and have learned some things about PCOS it explains a lot. The last 8 months I have been battling something (docs not too sure that PCOS is the only thing going on) and I have been trying harder than ever to control some of my emotions. Now being on the Metformin I feel a bit physically better and I think that helps too.
I am sorry to hear about your divorce. Be strong and hang in there!
JJL

I too,have put my husband through hell and back --i was always a pretty easy going person before i went off of birth control--and just like that over night i turned in to a total nightmare--i kept telling my dr that something was wrong and she kept telling me not to worry --i was misdiagnosed--and to my suprise through seeing another dr i found out that i had pcos --i have never heard of pcos before that day --i can remember that drive home talking to my husband on the phone and explaining my diagnoses--he promised that we could make it through this --and so far we have --but how i dont know --sometimes we can be at our best and other times eachothers nightmare--but i after 3 yrs of infert. with no luck --and my husband by my side we just get through one day at a time and only by the grace of god he stands by me another day --just keep your head up --we all have been through so much just with pcos --i truely believe that it makes us stronger

It is so hard to be optimistic sometimes, but I've made a life change...and the way I see it now...that's the only way for me to get thru the day. I carried anger and resentment for a long time after going to doctors and explaining my symptoms and NEVER getting a diagnosis until the END of my relationship. The strain of miscarriage/desire to have children was put on my marriage early on due to the fact that we dated for 8 years before tying the knot. Anyhow, it's good to see that others can relate. If you ever need anything, let me know! I mean it.