Ihow know how you feel. I try to stay away but, I know we always can't. I tend to remember that they can't help my problemes and that they deserve to be happy. I too am questioning god's plan for me.

I can imagine how you must've felt. I get jealous, and hurt when I see other friends babies. It's not anything that they do, it's just we are so in tuned, trying so hard to have a baby and with all of this effort, still nothing. Try not to question God, just beleive him. He know's whats best for you.

you learn to deal with it or at least i have i adore my little nephew and spoil him with my love.if you dont learn to deal with it you will be very unhappy.enyoy the time you get to spend with any baby

I found that working in a daycare has really helped me. I get to be around babies and toddlers all day (without all the aggravation of their moms reminding me what I can't seem to do). It's really tough at times though, especially when you see parents who don't really care about or want their child, and you'd give anything to have one.

I can completely understand how you're feeling. I just keep reminding myself that when I do have a child of my own, it will be the most loved baby in the world.

when i hear news like that, I smile and am really genuinely happy for them, but when i get home, i do feel stabs and pangs of i wish it was me, but thats life- and it really hurst sometimes.

i know exactly how you feel,I have 3 friends who are pregnant,1 works with me,1 lives with me and the other just had her 1st 6months ago and is pregnant with her 2nd,I know your pain,but what my mom tells me "dont worry your time will come,and as hard as it is to say God always hears ands sees what you go though,he has not fogotten about you,he loves you and wants to see you happy it will happen for you and for me but you got to have alittle faith in him!!i questin him to and know that his answer will come

I know how you feel hun. For a while I had convinced myself that I would be ok if I didn't have kids. But now, after finding the love of my life, I want children with him desparately.

I love kids, and actually work with them on the weekends. It's harder for me to see pregnant women and babies for some reason. And some days all I can do is cry, while others I am perfectly fine.

I work in a childcare centre and so I am daily bombarded by yummy mummies and at first it really upset me and then it gradually became just a soft stab in the gut. It got better but I still deal with the sense of "it'snotfairness" and I try and remember that my day will come and how amazing it will be, I also was taught to bless those who upset me so I just quickly say a prayer for them and move on to the next task of the day. I feel for you though because I know exactly what you mean. It's heartbreaking. I went through a stage of not being able to walk down a street that had a shop selling maternity clothes! Silly me

When I find out someone I know is pregnant I usually break down and then I am fine. I love babies and if I don't ever get the chance to have my own at least I can enjoy everyone else's babies. My sister has a 3 year old that is the world to me and I lover him very much. I just love babies and always have to hold them. It gets easier as time goes by.

I don't get upset with others giving birth or getting pregnant. It's not their fault I can't. I work with preschoolers and that really helps. My youngest are 3 and the oldest are 5 so they stil need plenty of love and attention while I'm helping them grow and develope in various areas. Your life is what you make it. God doesn't give us more than we can handle and no matter what, he is always with us. There is no pre determined destiny that we will or won't unless it directly involves a specific plan of his will, such as impregnating Mary for our savior to be born. Anyway, he may be answering in a way we didn't want but he does know best. I'll be praying for you dear. I've have a stillbirth and miscarriage and those were very tough but I am today because of yesterday. Best Wishes hon! If you have time, there are many babies that could use some extra loving at hospitals, sometimes they take volunteers to help rock and feed babies also check with childcare centers and programs. Maybe foster care or adoption may be a choice. There are plenty of deserving children that were unfortunately born to parents who didn't deserve them.

Well for me I am at the point were its hard for me to be around other babies or even toddlers. I try to keep it together but sometimes I cant. I have 2 friends that are only weeks pregnant. 1, this will be her 3rd child and the first for the other. Which I dont thing she was ready for. I am happy for both of them however I cant help to feel bad inside that God skipped me again. I dont know plan for me or my future but it still hurts and is hard trying not to question who he chooses to bless with a child. Most of the time I just feel lost, like I dont fit in with the rest of my friends. I feel less of a women, I hate that I have PCOS.

I just try to think of it as a promise that one day I'll have my chance... I'm truly happy for all my friends (and my fiance's ex)... I have 5 friends prego and 1 that just had her baby a little over a month ago... I often find myself questioning why they get a shot and I don't but having them around in a strange sense gives me hope...
I can't say it gets easier but you get used to it... or at east I have... hang in there

I totally agree, you just have to remember that its not that person fault that they were blessed with a child, and if it were you in their shoes you would want people to be happy for you right? i know its easier said then done, coz i totally know how you feel but just stay positive and have faith, your time will come xxx

I cry alot too and especially when they are like oh look at me I have a baby and they do not realize it effects you, but I guess If i had a baby I would be proud too. It does hurt though, and I am 26 and got pregnat when I was 18 and lost the baby at 12 weeks, and since I have never been able to get pregnant and it hurts my husband alot. He is so devastated because he wants kids bad and I do too. I cry alot because of it. It makes me feel real bad. My little sister finally has conceived after 3 miscarriages and she is now about 16 weeks. I am real happy for her though and very excited. I will be devastated if she loses this one. She is diabetic and the doctor does not know why she could not carry a child. Well she found out her progesterone levels were real low. She made the doctor put her on Prometrium and he did because what the doctor may not tell you is progesterone does help you keep the baby. I had a friend who done it and the baby is perfectly normal no birth defects or anything. THey will tell you it causes birth defects and you should not take while pregnant well when my sister has her baby we will see.

I dont think I deal with that at all very well. I tried for a baby in my last relationship before it ended and was unsuccessful and I didnt think I would be one to be jealous of what anyone else had, especially a baby! but Im finding it more and more unbearable now being around babies and the conversation about pregnancy! I avoid it at all costs! This group is great cos I realise Im not alone! Who knows though, if its Gods will for you to have one, you will have one! Its tough but I just shut myself from those feelings when Im around my nieces and nephews so I can enjoy them. Im the only one out of 5 siblings who doesnt have a child and it never bothered me at 1st but when everyone around me keeps on reminding me about it its frstrating at times and I just cry!