I have more to add here that also scares me. With statements she said to me in the past, and I never took seriously, now I am. People tell me that without me there to keep her "grounded" she is going to get WORSE. She sent me a text a couple weeks ago in which she said, "Our son will be fine, but as far as her, what does it really matter" Her statements about wanting to just get in her car and leave her entire life. They just scare me. My son is there. But how do I KNOW if I am not there. How do I KNOW if this woman really needs me to be there for her when she is telling me she doesn't. She hasn't really been violent or anything. One time she suspected I was doing something "wrong' with a female coworker who EVERYONE knows I would never be attracted to and she flipped out on me and smashed the phone I think. people are telling me that her PMDD is only going to get worse with new "stresses". How do I KNOW she really wants/needs me deep down if she is telling me she doesn't. Could she really better off without me there, even if it is just for raising our children? She has said getting rid of me isn't going to make me happy when this first started last month. She said she "doesn't want to lose her family", but now she doesn't seem to mind. i so much want to believe that it is her PMDD causing this but I just don't know. She is like 2 people!!! IF I REALLY KNEW THIS IS ALL BECAUSE OF PMDD AND THAT DEEP DOWN SHE REALLY WANTS ME TO LOVE HER AND BE THERE FOR HER I WOULD HAVE THE CONFIDENCE TO FIGHT FOR US FOREVER.
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