Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I went over tonight to the old place to pick up things that he had said I left. I was safe about it, and met him downstairs in the parking lot. (He was never physically abusive to the point I would be in fear.)
I pulled up and he was waiting for me. And he got out and handed me a few things and a check. The check was to terminate the pregnancy....
He pushed a pad and paper in my hand and said- "NOW SIGN A RECEIPT."
(Sign a reciept?) I asked him why, and he said just to sign it.
I put:
(with as legal expertise I've had of an emphasis of crim. studies in college-)
This is to certify that (Name) has given (Name) a payment of $500.00 in a check form. The check number is (Check number) and the check is signed by (Name) This check does not equal or will ever be perceived as a loan of any kind. This is a one-time payment, and will never have to be paid back.
Date,
Name.
He never read over it. (I think he sincerely thought he was lending me money.) He took the pad back and looked me straight in the eye and said,
"TRY AND HAVE A GOOD BIRTHDAY." (My birthday is in two days.)
Im still crying.
I pulled up and he was waiting for me. And he got out and handed me a few things and a check. The check was to terminate the pregnancy....
He pushed a pad and paper in my hand and said- "NOW SIGN A RECEIPT."
(Sign a reciept?) I asked him why, and he said just to sign it.
I put:
(with as legal expertise I've had of an emphasis of crim. studies in college-)
This is to certify that (Name) has given (Name) a payment of $500.00 in a check form. The check number is (Check number) and the check is signed by (Name) This check does not equal or will ever be perceived as a loan of any kind. This is a one-time payment, and will never have to be paid back.
Date,
Name.
He never read over it. (I think he sincerely thought he was lending me money.) He took the pad back and looked me straight in the eye and said,
"TRY AND HAVE A GOOD BIRTHDAY." (My birthday is in two days.)
Im still crying.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Either way... i am glad that you are getting rid of this guy... he is a f*ck-o
My body is one of the 2% of people that are basically allergic to pregnancies. (Hyperemesis.) In my first pregnancy, I ended up in the hospital for 3 months and survived by being on a pic line.
I do not think I can handle it, and as careful as we were and as much as it happened, (ONCE, people, ONCE- that's all it takes,) I'm just in survival mode.
I'll feel wretched either way.
I hope you feel better soon and go treat yourself to something for ending this.