The last few weeks, my sister has been very abusive with me. She is constantly criticizing me and trying to pick a fight with me. Around other people though, she's fine. It's like she becomes a totally different person. Although she's abusive she use to be much less so. Ever since she has been living with her fiance though, she's been extremely abusive virtually all the time to me and to him. I thought that because she had a boyfriennd in her life, she would be much happier but it seems like the reverse is true. It has led me to wonder whether or not the years that I was there for her when nobody else was, was she just using me? Does she really hate me and now that she has what she wants in life has decided that she doesn't need me around? I'm feeling very hurt and confused. I've read books about why abusers abuse and while that's provided some insight, it hasn't really brought enough clarity for me.
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