Why does it happen? I mean, are they evil people? Do they realize they're doing it? Do they do all these things on purpose? I guess I'm referring more to verbal abuse. My partner seems to be an OK guy, he goes out of his way for EVERYONE in the world -he's the world's biggest pushover when it comes to his ex, his friends will call him at 3AM to get picked up from somewhere coz they're drunk, and he'll do it, but when it comes to me, I can't do ANYTHING right. NOTHING. NADA. If I slack off, I'm lazy, if I tidy up, I get told "why are you doing this now?!", if I make an effort, I get the 3rd degree, but if I don't, he laughs at me cos I have hairy legs (lol...yes, I can't be bothered shaving sometimes-sue me he he). And the list goes on and on... Why is he that way? I love him so much, but he really IS driving me crazy. I just wish I knew WHY he's like that, and if there is any way to get him to stop. He spends all his money -no explanation God Forbid, and then questions me CONSTANTLY about where I spent my money, WHY I need money, how much I spent etc. ARGH. Any tips? Please message me because I never remember the title of my posts and then I can't find the answers to my posts :-) Thank you!!
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