My b.f. abused me for not being "brutally honest". On a talk show today they said some lies in a relationship are O.K. and some are not. I think lying is wrong if you want a healthy relationship. However if you're in an abusive relationship you feel like you're walking on eggshells and are AFRAID because you don't know what the other person's reaction will be. One evening we were out to dinner he asked me if I had made any phone calls that day and he made me list out who I had called or he'd check my phone. When I did what he asked and mentioned my ex's name he stormed out of the restaurant. Later he hit me. He still maintained the relationship was not working because I LIE. I don't think I do. When is it a lie?
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