My husband is emotionally/verbally abusive. He tells me he says mean things because he is admittedly selfish and needs a lot of attention, and he's jealous because he is not getting it from me right now. I told him with our son, taking care of the house and running errands, and working part-time, I don't have time to give him the attention he needs, so something needs to drop. I am considering quitting my job (we don't really need the income) to make more time for him. However, I am concerned about what will happen if I do this. Will things get better because I have more time, or will this cause him to have more control over me, and treat me worse? I have a pretty good situation at work; hours are flexible and I work some from home. What would you do?
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