A woman at work is treating me in such a way that it triggers all my memories of being abused. She uses the same tactics as my mom did. Although I have talked with my boss about it, he doesn't want to confront her. He's minimizing what's happening and says that she and I just have bad chemistry. I don't really want to leave my job (yet). A lot of people get abused in the workplace and it's probably an illusion that there are workplaces where there's no envy, intense competition and back stabbing. I think this woman is jealous of my job and working on getting me out. My mom was always jealous of me and I very afraid of jealous people. They usually stop at nothing trying to get you. My initial reaction is to flee but that's never helped. Any suggestions on how to deal with this?
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