I've just joined this group and I wanted to get some feed back on a problem I'm having. I've known nothing but abuse my whole life I used to think it was normal and I deserved it, but I've thank god, I've gotten to a point in mylife that I know I'm better than that...any who...My husband is the most wonderful man in the world. He is my rock. I battle w/bp disorder among many other issues but he is verbally abusive to me.(I not a saint) I get scared when he gets angry like he's gunna attack me sometimes. He says he sorry when he sees I getting scared. And he has gotten better but I've heard sorry so many times and had bad, bad, BAD things happen to me in past relationships. Am I just being paranoid because of the cycle of abuse I've been thruogh? Or sould I just wait things out w/time? Has anyone been in couples counsling/ marriage counsling? He says he's totally against it but I don't wanna give up on my marriage? Help ...advise please....
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