Last night was just another one of those wonderful days in my life. My hisband hadn't talked to me for days and had actually said several hurtful things to me the night before but his friend tom is visitinf from Maryland and wants to go out of evening. So guess what now I am good enough and Everything is just great in his life. So weleave to go out for supper and her ruight away asks me what my problem is? I said it just just go away the way you treat me without an apology. I don't need to apologize you are the one who can't keep you mouth shut. I stated that if you don't want me to tell anyone then don't say hurtful things to me. He told me that i do not need to discuss our lives with anyone. I guess then they might realize that he isn't the perfect guy thta he pretends to be. He then stated that we just maybe shouldn't go out with our frineds if this is how the evening is going to be. I stated "Why?" I don't have a problem and plan on being social. So we met our friends and ate at the new place in town. Next, I was watched like a Hawk to ensure that I wasn't drinking to much then I got I trouble for what I ordered because he didn't feel that the soup I had would be enough to soak up the alcohol. The rest of the night went pretty well until we go home. When we got into bed My seven year old daughter asked me to come and lay with her because she was scared. He stated"Savannah, go to bed your old enough!" I go t up and went and laid with her he told me I was a push over. After a while after falling asleep I felt like someone was standing over me I woke up and there he was waiting for me to come to bed with him. I went to our bed and she started to try to make out with me. I told him "no, you can't act lie that and then expect me to have sex with you. He got angry and rolled over and went to sleep. In the morning silent treatment agian. I got up and took a shower, came into my bedroom, the kids were in there laying onmy bed adnstarted to but my uinderclothes on. He shouted at me "What the Fuck, your kids are in her, theydon't need to be looking at you naked the least you could fo is go in the bathroom. My daughter is 7 andmy son is 2. i really don't believe it is a issue. And then i stated I really wish you would stop using all that profanity uinfront of me and the children. He stated "Don't worry you won't have to put up with it much longer. I stated"Good." I am sure just one more threat but I don't truat him tright now. I could really use some advice form you.
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