not playing the game with your abuser ? For instance, today my husband made a statement (never a direct question or request for me to clean it) It really smells in Tommy's (our 14 year old) room ! Normally I would say well I'll clean it up or I'll ask Tom to help me clean it or whatever...instead, I said, "it sure does".
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