sunday my b/f had a b-day party for his daughter. his ex, his ex's family, his family and other people were to come over. his ex, his family both dont like me (for some reasons). anyway, i wanted to watch the football game because i love the bears, and i feel uncomfortable around his ex and his family. so i decided to go by my brother's and not attend the b-day party. well last night my b/f started in on me about it. he said i should have been there for him, and helped w/the party and help to clean up. he said his ex cleaned up after the party by vacuming, she washed the kid's clothes, and put some thing's away. he said i was selfish and all i think about is myself. i told him "well i guess we are both guilty of that." he doesn't ever come to watch me bowl, instead he does his own thing (i've gone to watch him race cars many times), anytime i invite him to my son's activities he always says no. he didn't say anything to that. he claims i don't ever do anything around the house or for him, which is a lie. i make his kid's breakfast, lunch, and dinner when they are there visiting. i play with them while he watches tv, i do the dishes, do laundry sometimes, and i clean (not perfect though). but to him it is not good enough or done right. to him, it seems i never do anything right. i told him last night everytime he has anyone over to the house he totally ignores me, he acts like i'm not even there. he said "can i be honest? i don't talk to you because i'm afraid your going to say or do something stupid or to embarrass yourself or me." i couldn't believe he said that. that really hurt. i try so hard to be there for him i really do, but i don't know what to do. thank you for listening.
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