Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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what can i do now

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I have made big mistakes see my profile and i need help getting the one i would die for back to where we were - getting married moving to a great new house! in love!!!
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Hun give her time ...I hope it all works out. talk to her if she will let you if not write a letter post it to her...

Hugggss
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she is talking to me but not about the things we need to. she was spose to come to the old place to help pack and we have been busy but she still hasnt come over. she needs to pick up the cat coz i cant look after him alone. i have the dog at my mums. i need help with all the things WE normally do but cant even get that even though we talk normally. she is really mad still though and wants to kill the 2 girls that i tried to call. (i didnt even get them on the fone to talk - but i spose looking back i was drunk but probably wanted sex).
my guts are hurting about this, i cant eat or sleep.
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Have you thought about going to counseling and working through your personal issues. Your girlfriend might be more responsive if she sees that you are actually taking some action, to correct bad behavior rather than just talking about it.
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I totaly agree with everyone here.Benjimun really summed it up though.Actions will speak alot louder then words.Show her you are willing to take steps to assure her your recent activity is not something she has to fear will keep reoccuring.You made a mistake.(a big one) Remember nothing can be changed,you did what you did,and No,you can't have everything exactly like it was, but you can move forward and make things better.I hope she forgives you,because one day she may be the one to mess up and need your foregiveness in return.If you know in your heart that you truly want to change and make it better,then others will know it too.
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this is all good and helping me feel alot less like vrying all the time. I dont cry over anything but her! She is the only one who can change my mood with a few simple words!

I have told her i'm talking to people on here and that i want to change things. she says she needs time, thats what is killing me, not talking bout everything.
How do i bring up things that i think have been making me feel crap. Things like money and her lsitening to me - i have started to think back and i see some things that may have pushed us apart before this. I'm not trying to look for an excuse because there is none
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