I am still living with my stbx with a goal of March 31 to move out. I have an interview tomorrow and 2 next week. Need to save $ for deposit & rent. Tonight the stbx slapped our 8yr old upside his head because he asked him to stop screaming & cussing, (our 8yr old was trying to do his homework). I had just gotten home from the grocery store, I had asked my stbx to help bring in groceries, he started to bitch, I said I would bring them in and put them away. Obviously he came home in a bad mood. For what? I don't know, so the whole night was bad he could not stop bitching & complaining about anything, he kicked our little dogs because the were sniffing his leg (like dogs do), he just would not shut up. Our 8yr old kept asking him to stop yelling & cussing and said "Dad, you have a problem." He responded by telling our son if he said that again he would "Slap him upside his head again". After our son went to bed, of course I told him he better never threaten nor hit our son again for no reason. He started to threaten me and call me a Bitch. Of course our 8 yr old heard all of this. I am at my wits end. He is such an abuser, now he's starting on our son. My plan is for me and my son to be gone as much as possible, maybe go to the library to get his homework done, until I move out. Please give me some advice.
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