I have spent the last 7 yrs in love with a man who treated me with such disrespect, he was dr. jekyl mr hyde, cold one moment, silent treatment, and the most loving person the next. it drove me nuts, how could someone who claims to love me, be so deceitful at times, disrespectful, and intentionally mean. well the good news is he's been out of my life for 6 weeks, no contact whatsoever. i've been focusing on finding my balance, getting myself healthy. but i'm so drawn to why he did what he's done. upon reading much, i've stumbled upon passive-aggressive personality disorder. OMG, that's so him, how I reacted, all of it, his domineering mother, every article is so him. i feel peace in knowing, i do not feel sorry for him, but i understand to a degree why i stayed, how easy it is to be manipulated. i know now warning signs which i should of paid attn to with my ex. Now the strange thing is I have this desire to contact him, let him know what i've found out about our 7 yr boomerang relationship. I know contacting him is wrong, how do i get this out of my head? why can't i accept this and move on. anyone ever been in the same situation? any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.
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