Hi, My name is Annette. Im hoping I can find someone who has experience in the field or has a Spouse that is Mentall Abusive and sometimes verbal. My Husband does not use Cuss words at me but verbally Cuts Me down at times and my Family right to my face and orders me around like I was His Child. The mental part is Controlling and pretty much watches everything I do. we have only been Married for 8 mths now and he started changing 2 mnths after Marriage and it happened quickly. He calls me at home for on my cell Phone up to 6x's a day and asks me how my day is going and he is at work while he does this check up on me. I Visit my Mom only once a wk and it is only up to a 1 to 2 hr visit. I have one friend that I have known since I was 23yrs old and Iam now going on 42, he tryed to keep me away from that one friend but did not work, I fought back. when he thinks am a little tired he tells me I should go to bed and tells me u need to get your rest, when I get an 8r a night sleep. He just acts like a dad instead of a husband. He has been trying to take my independance away like telling me I should stay home and get some rest all the time which I can not understand. there was one night we had just finished up arguing and I just wanted to take a ride to the store that was only 2 blocks away and got very angry and told me I was running away from our problems and the only thing I was doing was getting some lottery tickets. We got into one fight where it involved my Sister, well she is a recovering Alcoholic and doing vvery well and she is doing very well at that and finally I have my sister back. Well he hardly knows my Sister I think now for 2 mnths. He says My Sister is a Piece of shit and if I go over there I was one to and he threatened me with well if you go over there u can just pack your bags and leave. I dont like to tell people my whole life story to people I dont even know, but I have to talk to someone because it is driving me crazy. See I love my family Unconditionally and my Husband wants me all to himself. I did a Stupid mistake one time and told my Husband Brian about why My last Marriage broke up because like all of us when u have been married before and u are with someone new they would like to know why your last marriage broke up, that is a commom thing now days. Well I told my husband that My ex-was an alcoholic and and left me alone alot and he was drunk every day and I could not live like like. Well this Husband now Brian is clean and does not drink and Iam fortunate to have found a man like that, well every time we have an Argument and it has nothing to do with my ex Brian brings him into it everytime and says oh you still are in-love with your ex-husband and you are no over him, and also in the argument and again this argument has nothing to do with my ex, Brian thinks when I go out to visit my Mom Iam sneaking out to see my ex and brian is always throwing my ex in my face. Somedays it really gets bad and when Iam trying to talk to him he will wasl away because he is finished with what he is saying but Iam not with mine. My Husband brian tells me how to dress alot thru the week and tells me alot when I should go to bed and when we are in a conversation he starts cutting it down right away that what iam saying is all wrong or it is stupid. He almost got me to sell my only transportation and wanted me to move out of state with him but I said no way. Anyhow like anyhow he is like this on and off all week long and frequently changes to the really sweet man I knew before we got married and drastically changes into a pushy husband and says he is inadequate and says to me that I would like a man that was really hung instead of me and he speaks for alot of the times. Well your in-put on this would help me so much, "Please Help" I need some one. Annette what do you think, do you believe this is vacalled Spousal abuse has
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