I really cannot stand how stbx appears to be sooooo wonderful, coaching his sons ball team, yet in private, he is a verbally,emotionally abusive asshole....people seem to think he is marvelous, yet he is a bastard. Sometimes it makes me feel like screaming to everyone sitting there, ya know he is not at all like this as a husband or father.. many times.... I have also noticed, that people really do not give a shit what people are like in private, as long as they get their needs met, there is really no loyalty, when it comes to some friends/family...they will talk to him as if things i have said about him are meaningless, then say to me later, well I probably will not talk to him again....i feel like adding, yea, until you want something. When getting away from someone like him, you really need tobe willing to give up everything,friends,family,it is sooo much to lose, I guess that is why i stayed so long...anyone else feel this way?
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