
Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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I saw this guy again. He invited my daughter and me camping and hunting for the weekend. It was a lot of fun, we all had a great time. I cut the trip a little short because my daughter wanted to get back home to go on a date with her new boyfriend. I thought we left on good terms with him and he acted like everything was fine. He called just as I was walking in my door... just checking to see that I got home ok. Everything was still good... or so I thought. This was at about 8:00 pm Saturday.
Just before midnight, the phone rang. It was him again. He had obviously had a few too many beers and proceeded to tell me just what he thought of me leaving earlier than he had planned and about how selfish my daughter was and how I was spoiling her. Everything he said was littered with profanity and his tone of voice was very mean and he said some very ugly things. He kept saying that he wasn't mad, but when I said that he sounded mad to me, he threatened to hang up and never call me again if I said that one more time. I was physically shaking. I've never heard him sound like that.
Of course he called Monday and appologized all over the place. I asked him if he remembered what he said, he didn't... so I reminded him of a few things. I told him he was mean. He appologized some more. He's very good at appologizing. Like he's had a lot of practice.
I told him that he shouldn't call me anymore. Thankfully, I think he realizes that he blew it. I won't be seeing him anymore. But I have to admit... it hurts me that it's over. I let myself get much more attached to him than I intended. But I just can't deal with Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde.
Just before midnight, the phone rang. It was him again. He had obviously had a few too many beers and proceeded to tell me just what he thought of me leaving earlier than he had planned and about how selfish my daughter was and how I was spoiling her. Everything he said was littered with profanity and his tone of voice was very mean and he said some very ugly things. He kept saying that he wasn't mad, but when I said that he sounded mad to me, he threatened to hang up and never call me again if I said that one more time. I was physically shaking. I've never heard him sound like that.
Of course he called Monday and appologized all over the place. I asked him if he remembered what he said, he didn't... so I reminded him of a few things. I told him he was mean. He appologized some more. He's very good at appologizing. Like he's had a lot of practice.
I told him that he shouldn't call me anymore. Thankfully, I think he realizes that he blew it. I won't be seeing him anymore. But I have to admit... it hurts me that it's over. I let myself get much more attached to him than I intended. But I just can't deal with Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde.
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