I have been divorced for two and a half years. My husband was emotionally abusive for the 7 years of our marriage. I am now with a really great guy, but I don't know if I love him or just love that he is so nice and kind to me and my daughter. I don't know if my past is keeping me from getting closer to him, or if I just don't really love him. I don't know how to distinguish between my real feelings and my emotional baggage. I know I miss him when we are not together, and I know I enjoy being with him, but when I think of "marriage" (which he wants, but is not pushing) I get "freaked". How do I know if it is him or me, and if it's me, how do I move past it? Has anyone else been through this?
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