The weirdest thing happened yesterday morning. I just posted about court and everything last Thursday if you remember my post where my ex plead guilty and got charged with the harassment and his wife flipped out, etc. Well this Saturday he had an overnight visitation with my son as usual. I went by myself to pick him up. My husband usually goes with me if he can put he was tired from our reception party the night before so I didn't bother to wake him up. Previously ex N's mother had told me that him and his wife were splitting up and they had lost their house and he was moving back in with her. I didn't believe it because he brought her to court with him and gave that piss poor display of an attempt to make me jealous. Anyway, when I pulled up to his mom's house to get my son, sure enough his car was in the driveway. Not only that but he was staring at me. I walked up to the door to get my son because she was standing with him at the door. I handed her a box with some cake in it. Ex N then walked through the garage and popped up behind his mother and asked me if he could have a piece of cake too, lol. I said "sure". He grabbed my son from his mom and did the lamest "father of the year" act with him it wasn't even funny. He's so phoney. Like he ever gave a damn. Anyway, I tried to get out of there as quickly as possible. He called my name as I was leaving to get in my car. I did acknowledge him and he told me congratulations on getting married. I said thanks and proceeded to get in my car. He called name again and I said "What?" He said "It's funny. You just got married and I'm getting divorced." At that point I just left. I figured he was trying to bait me or something. I think he's coming after me now that he knows I have someone else. Ns are sick like that. I guess I screwed up by talking to him. I still have a permanent restraining order on him. It was an awkward situation and I didn't know how to react to it. He hasn't tried to contact me or anything since then, but I hope I didn't give him the idea that he could by responding to his nonsense.
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