It is odd to meet with her on a Saturday I know but hey if she is willing to meet then it works for me and she is really good!! She knows all about the men we are dealing with so we talk with so much understanding..and she is giving me pointers on what to look for in these abusers..and I have been able to use some already, I look for them in people in general testing (mainly men) but when I spot a flag I then look at it in a healthier way (I hope I am) I decide how it affects me and how I will deal with it and the person, do I remain friendly or run..I can usually deal with flags as along as I put up boundries and the person respects them, because we all have flags to someone, we have to determine if they are mind altering or not..(toxic) I think once we are healthy we'll free ourselves from abusers completely...have any of you watched the movie "They Live"?? It is about these aliens that look like humans until you put on these special sunglasses, then you see who they really are.. and you can see them everywhere as long as you wear the glasses..I am thinking on that level as I type here. So when I am healed and can spot these abusers, I will be able to do it without special glasses and will they be all around me??? I hope not!! LOL..YIKES!....I'll be posting my in journel later today after my 2:00 appt what I can pass on..Later
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