
Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
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this is like a bad nightmare ...doesnt seem real

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So I have been in with my husband since we were nineteen. I married him at 21. So he can definitely be a nice guy now. He is better than he was years ago, but years ago he was horrible. He even would threaten to kill me. Now his temper is still bad, but just not as bad.
My life changed so much with him; I just feel like the things I have been through aren't real. It is like they happened to someone else. Does that make sense? I just wonder how I got myself into this mess. How do I get myself out?
When will I be close to the complete person I once was, without all the damages.
The things I have been through are insane. He goes insane, and I can't believe it. It just doesn't even seem real to me, but the effects are there.
I gave him many chances, and he has never changed. He has always snapped with me again. Like a few months ago I confronted him about emails I found from him to another woman. He flipped out on me and became very violent because I told him that I think he was lying to me. Then he says he will never do it again, and yadayadayada.
I left him, but now we are back together. I really thought it was over. I just don't think it is the right time to leave. I am really scared!
My life changed so much with him; I just feel like the things I have been through aren't real. It is like they happened to someone else. Does that make sense? I just wonder how I got myself into this mess. How do I get myself out?
When will I be close to the complete person I once was, without all the damages.
The things I have been through are insane. He goes insane, and I can't believe it. It just doesn't even seem real to me, but the effects are there.
I gave him many chances, and he has never changed. He has always snapped with me again. Like a few months ago I confronted him about emails I found from him to another woman. He flipped out on me and became very violent because I told him that I think he was lying to me. Then he says he will never do it again, and yadayadayada.
I left him, but now we are back together. I really thought it was over. I just don't think it is the right time to leave. I am really scared!
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