When I've told him I'm hurt, it turned into fights, it angered him. It's so abusive. I have to remember I cannot appeal to any sense of empathy in my abuser (calling him abuser is new for me). It made it hard to feel comfortable expressing myself honestly. It didn't start out that way, subtle changes over time turned from someone caring into cold. My feelings are real and they are not to big to have to act like they are a burden or are inappropriate, they are to be FELT and dealt with, and I NEED to accept he can't help me with that, as much as he may have used to, it is different now. He is different, we are different and I am different.
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