I am going to the in-laws tomorrow and DH will be there. This is the first time since I left him in October that we will see each other. I am only doing this because of the kids. My therapist told me to not talk to him about our marriage this weekend. I am to just say that this is Christmas and that we will discuss it after the holidays. I am to just observe how he acts with the kids and toward me. I am very nervous. We are staying over night and we are leaving first thing Sunday morning. Just please keep me in your thoughts. Does anyone have any advice on dealing with covert tactics that have always kept DH calm but me looking like the crazy one because I get frustrated? Any advice on staying calm?
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