i met this lady who is a Therapist, actually she was my Therapist...we got along good and she asked me out and we became friends...one night she asked me if i ever got into Role Playing and since i had not she told me it was harmless fun between two people..she explained to me that she wanted me to play as her dad did her...being very controlling....telling her what to do and if she didnt do it, i was to punish her...i told her i could not cause pain..i did not believe in that...and whe explian that the what kind of punishement to use on her...like sending her to bed without supper, making her stand in a corner...me wanting to know her ever move...i tried on time to do it...i told her to stand in a corner and she went and started crying like a child would...i couldnt take it and left.....she was such a nice person...my question is: i do not believe in controlling, if i had continue in that, wouldnt she actually been the one controlling me?? i ask because if i did not believe in it...and did it...i would be the one being controlled? i hope this makes sense......thanks for your input......
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