hi, I am 25 years old. I met a man about 3 months ago..the first month was like a dream come true, he was compassionate and kind..I really thought "finally..I met a great guy." Then, he started becoming distant..saying kind of mean things, like "sometimes I wonder how you got through college" after I make a statement. He would not call as much and if I asked him why he didn't call me back he'd laugh it off and make me feel like I was "acting crazy", "being a typical girl that was going to start irritating him". I finally got tired of it and felt like I was only there for his convenience/sex..when I tried talking to him about it he blew me off..said I was "acting crazy." said he "wasn't sure if I was the one for him and just wanted to continue casually and see what happens." we then got into a huge fight where we called each other names, etc...I apologized a few days later and he never did..he never said sorry for anything he said. ignored me for a few days..then out of stupidity I slept with him on a whim the other night..he was his passionate self again- treating me like a princess with wine and candles and music..then the next day we both worked all day and didn't speak much..today I texted him to ask if he would want to go to a music festival with me a few weeks away (I know..I am dense sometimes and don't get the clue)...he didn't even respond to me. He did this after the fight too..would ignore me..play the silent treatment game..I feel like he is deliberately trying to hurt me. I mean he coulda said "Im not sure" or even No for all I care!! But at least answer me instead of ignoring me as if I don't exist..and after that big night of what he called "passion", now you just ignore me? I can't stand this..why can't I just move on? why is he treating me this way?
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