Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Thank you everyone who responsded so eloquently to my recent posts. I am so happy that you (and myself included) all found solace and peace in "A Survivor's Journey.
I spoke to E this morning at the shelter where I am working through the Dept of Labor out here in NY about getting some counseling even though I am a survivor through BT but she felt it might be a conflict of interest so she was pleased to refer me to several local places for it instead with a good reputation.
It appears based on office conversation that they would like to train me to work the DV Hotline!
I have to say I kinda feel a little out of place with them because of their well manicured hands, and Gucci hand bags but I might be able to get some clothes through the Dept of Labor, all I have is sweat pants and tank tops! Hardly professional!
I did call my worker over at DOL this morning and he did say I can go get my GED in one of 2 ways, I can go through BOSCES and split my hours between that and the work site or I can do it at home through GRASP. Not sure which one to do. I have also recieved an email today from a woman at the Displaced Homemakers Program out here saying she would like me to call her but I had to email her back saying I would soon as I could but I also explained my reasons for wanting the help through their program.
A bit of good news for the Ministry however, I had been asked to do some work on the Advocacy Director's puter today at work and the topic of the Ministry came up. Her face light up like a Christmas tree! She said "OMG! You would be such a wonderful resource for us, there arent many shelters and/or intake offices in this area for Domestic Violence. Bring in some of your brochures and I will run it by the Shelter Director."
I am also going to be looking into training for a DVL which is a Domestic Violence Liason. Not sure what their criteria is but they're up in Albany from what I understand, Im sure I can find out on the web (soon as I'm done with this post and making dinner....
Ladies, thank you so much for your words of wisdom and guidance..it was just a gentle reminder I needed to keep my ass going to ensure that I stay a SURVIVOR!
I spoke to E this morning at the shelter where I am working through the Dept of Labor out here in NY about getting some counseling even though I am a survivor through BT but she felt it might be a conflict of interest so she was pleased to refer me to several local places for it instead with a good reputation.
It appears based on office conversation that they would like to train me to work the DV Hotline!
I have to say I kinda feel a little out of place with them because of their well manicured hands, and Gucci hand bags but I might be able to get some clothes through the Dept of Labor, all I have is sweat pants and tank tops! Hardly professional!
I did call my worker over at DOL this morning and he did say I can go get my GED in one of 2 ways, I can go through BOSCES and split my hours between that and the work site or I can do it at home through GRASP. Not sure which one to do. I have also recieved an email today from a woman at the Displaced Homemakers Program out here saying she would like me to call her but I had to email her back saying I would soon as I could but I also explained my reasons for wanting the help through their program.
A bit of good news for the Ministry however, I had been asked to do some work on the Advocacy Director's puter today at work and the topic of the Ministry came up. Her face light up like a Christmas tree! She said "OMG! You would be such a wonderful resource for us, there arent many shelters and/or intake offices in this area for Domestic Violence. Bring in some of your brochures and I will run it by the Shelter Director."
I am also going to be looking into training for a DVL which is a Domestic Violence Liason. Not sure what their criteria is but they're up in Albany from what I understand, Im sure I can find out on the web (soon as I'm done with this post and making dinner....
Ladies, thank you so much for your words of wisdom and guidance..it was just a gentle reminder I needed to keep my ass going to ensure that I stay a SURVIVOR!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
http://www.dressforsuccess.org/home.aspx
It's called Dress for Success and it is a womens organization that helps "women in need" to find professional clothing, provide a support network and help with professional development. I don't know where in NY state you are but i did look and there seem to be several there.
GOOD LUCK!