Where do i start? I was with my husband 16 yrs he has physically abused me but more verbally! we have been married for nearly 3 yrs but we been seperated for 2 yrs now. he was found guilty of battery on our son aswell when he hit him with a belt as a form of disciplin! I reported him and even went to trial! I fled into refuge in august last year! But we have tried a few times to reconcile and things have got better then they go right back to where they were not with the violence but verbal! now a few weeks ago we talked and decided to sort things out civil because of kids and now court has odered supervised visits but his daughters are supposed to supevise but most of the time i end up doing it! we decided to try again but i am sticking to the supervised visits as ordered! I had to go back tp area where he lives for a few days as my dad was rushed into hosp and only place i could stay was by him! Since i left i converted from christian to muslim! He doesnt like it but said he will accept it once i am happy! He keeps saying to kids i am not right in the head and making fun of me to the kids and they have both told him he should respect me and they way i dress because i am happy! But he still does it and no he telling our son not to use his leg splints cause they make him look spastic! So now my son wont wear them and hospital has said if he doesnt he will end up in a wheel chair! I jus dont know what to do! I am such a mess i did apply for divorce and can apply for the absolute on 28th this month! He is only person that helps me when i need it but he always says i am no good mother etc. please tell me wot u think! I need help
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