I just want to say that an abuser will use anything, I mean anything as a tool. Stbx said he would call and let me know about a sport event for my son, wether or not he was taking him. So today was the day, my son mentioned on the phone last evening that they were going, because I do not want to go through my son, I left stbx a v-mail( I go straight to it instead of dealing with the chance of him answering) asking him to let me know the exact times etc...Well asshole claims he called and left me a message two days ago and told me...well he did not call my phone, nor does his number appear on my phone bill. I kindly asked him what a solution would be to making certain messages were sent/recorded/received etc...his answer is, I dont know what to tell you, I left you a message. He is a liar. He says this in front of my son, which leads him to believe his father is being honest. Does he really think the phone system only F's up for him???So of course, I said can you text me then, to ensure we are communicating about our sons event, he said yea whatever, whatever you want you control freak...I walked away. This certainly reminds me that no contact, needs to stay, no contact.
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