Well im not here for me, im here for my oldest and dearest friend. We havent seen much of each other over the last few months mainly because she spends alot of her time having sex with one boy or another, and we just never really see each other. For a while now i've known that she has had a problem with her dad and that they have never gotten on very well, i heard her hint a few times at school that he had hurt her but nobody ever thought much of it as she normally lied about quite alot of things, she had previously seen a councellor for about 6 or 7 months due to self harm but we never knew why she self harmed so im assuming it was about her dad. Recently i knew she was acting weird,so i asked one of my friends who i knew she would confide in if anything was wrong,she would never tell me anything, maybe because she thought i was too "immature" despite me being the complete opposite, i found out that he REALLY hurt her and she just wont tell me about a thing, im worried that she will or is still self harming or that if her dad does it again its going to be worse, how can i get her to confide in me, yeah i should make her think she can trust me but im not the sort of person who likes talking about feelings, she probably looks at me to be the joker of the group, the person with nothing wrong and who you can always have a good time with, but as she is my eldest friend and i love her to bits i just want to help her but to be honest, i dont know how to without her thinking im prying.
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