am I crazy? My husband grabbed my wrist once and jerked me against the kitchen table(is that abuse? or am I over analyzing), has always called me an inconsiderant bitch, disrespectful, and the list continues! He calls my 9 yr old a f**kin liar to her face, he has even said to me that that little cunt will quit lying one way or another! She is scared to death of him, but loves him like her father! I have the post on here describing the whole wrist grabbing incident, its what brought me to this site! I thank god everyday that I found you all! He blows up over stupid stuff, we all walk on eggshells, but anytime we argue, I leave it feeling like I should be apologizing for whatever the argument! I am NOT perfect by any means and I have called him an asshole, jackass, etc, once we were in Wal-Mart and my 9 year old wanted to spend her money while we were there, and he got pissed off and said to her and whomever was in hearing distance that she was a selfcentered bitch. He constantly calls her selfish, she is 9 of course she is to a degree. She isn't his (if you haven't figured that out) but we have 2 kids together that are 2 & 4 years old. Even his parents tell me that my daughter isn't treated equally by him, but he swears that he treats them all the same. He will make a comment (for ex: I hate fu**in kids, all of them) that sounds real to me and then later when its brought up again he didn't mean it, it was a joke, do I honestly think he was serious about that! Alot of people on here has said the grabbing my wrist and jerking me into the table is abuse and aggressive behavior. He has been gone for 10 days and will be home on Sunday. I had convienced myself the best thing for my kids and i was to leave, Had it all planned out I was going to talk to him when he got home and leave by the weekend. Now I feel like I am overacting on the whole thing! Am I making excuses or am I overreacting? I have never been thru this so sorry if I keep repeating things and rambling on and on.
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