Just curious. Is anyone out there exercising the no contact rule right now with their abuser? I'm on day 27 of mine and I was just curious to know if anyone out there is doing it now. What day are you on? What has helped you to keep going? How long were you with your abuser? What made you finally enforce NC? For me it was because I'm pregnant and he left me but he was still trying to hang on to me for a back up girl. He did nothing for me or the impending baby the whole time and every time I talked to him he was either trying to negotiate with me so I wouldn't take him for support, talking about his girlfriend which of course upset me emotionally, and making lewd sexual comments to me as if...lol...so pretty much he was still abusing me even though we had been apart for nine months. I finally took control and changed my number. He doesn't deserve to speak to me. Would love to hear more NC stories. Oh how many times did it take before you were successful with NC too?
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