Why does it take so long for feelings to go away? I was in an abusive relationship almost 3 yrs ago. I've been having nightmares lately about some of things that happened. But now instead of the nightmares having me being abused he's abusing one of my family members. This is a re-occuring nightmare and it's horrific. I don't dare call the family member and talk to them because then I'm afraid they'd "lock me up." I'm ok then I'm not ok. Today was horrible. I woke up from a nightmare soaked in sweat again, sobbing again, had to go to work cried at my desk almost all day.... what's wrong with me? This completely throws me through a loop. I've been to a counselor and they made it seem like what I'm going through is a natural process..... it's been almost 3 years he's been out of my life. I didn't think natural processes took that long. Whew, all I know is I'm still here. I think....
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