I am not really sure what is appropiate to write here. I am feeling pretty lonely right now. I am a mom of two girls. They are both in foster care right down due to dv (verbal abuse) in my home. They have been in foster care for about 6 weeks now. Their father has been in jail for about a month. Once the girls were removed he slapped me and went on a tirade of verbal abuse. He is looking at 6 years due to terrisitc threats. I haven't decided if I want to press charges I just want this to go away. I want my girls home and I stuggle so much about what to do regarding my relationship with him. It is so hard. I look at pictures and remember all the good times. I struggle becasue our oldest wants him to come home as long as he is not drinking and being mean but I just don't know. Even if he were to complete dv classes and treatment for his addictions what then? I feel like I have this black cloud over my head. The reality is the state can come in at anytime and take my kids again. Is it worth it? I just don't know. Not to mention 6 years is a long time..... At what point does it get better?
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