Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Thursday was a good day until i came home. I thought that i would go out and have fun for once instead of looking after mum. So i did. I came home & mum was drinking. Suprise suprise... We had a huge argument & my uncle had to come round, she told my brother that she hopes he drowns. & through more abuse at me..
I got up in the morning, didnt speak to her because of the night before & thats understandable right? Im not going to be nice to her and forget what she said to me. I came home frm school & mum had packed her bags. She told me shes leaving me and going somewhere else. She said she wasnt gonna tell us where she was going and she doesnt know how long for. So shes left me alone with my brother until she decides to come home and care for us again. Anything could happen to her. She can now drink all she likes without me stopping her. Shes threatened to kill herself. Nows her chance. And theres nothing i can do about it. I dont know where the fucks shes gone or anything. Ringing the police wont do anything, they'll just say shes an adult bla bla. So im stuck here alone with no one to care for me but my brother whos at work from 7 til 6:00 sometimes 7:00
she rang me yp today being all nice to me saying "hello darling its me, how was your day? did you go shopping?"
& im like wtf? my mother has just abandend me, I have to care for myself, buy my own food. Shes 4 hours away from home & is staying there until thursday.
& I rang up my aunty for support thinking she was gonna come over or something & help me out. She blamed it on me saying it was my fault.
I dont understand.. Shes just left me alone & everyone seems to be blaming me for it?
I got up in the morning, didnt speak to her because of the night before & thats understandable right? Im not going to be nice to her and forget what she said to me. I came home frm school & mum had packed her bags. She told me shes leaving me and going somewhere else. She said she wasnt gonna tell us where she was going and she doesnt know how long for. So shes left me alone with my brother until she decides to come home and care for us again. Anything could happen to her. She can now drink all she likes without me stopping her. Shes threatened to kill herself. Nows her chance. And theres nothing i can do about it. I dont know where the fucks shes gone or anything. Ringing the police wont do anything, they'll just say shes an adult bla bla. So im stuck here alone with no one to care for me but my brother whos at work from 7 til 6:00 sometimes 7:00
she rang me yp today being all nice to me saying "hello darling its me, how was your day? did you go shopping?"
& im like wtf? my mother has just abandend me, I have to care for myself, buy my own food. Shes 4 hours away from home & is staying there until thursday.
& I rang up my aunty for support thinking she was gonna come over or something & help me out. She blamed it on me saying it was my fault.
I dont understand.. Shes just left me alone & everyone seems to be blaming me for it?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
But hes hardly capable of taking care of us, buying food etc.
he cant drive yet & we dont exactly have enough money to support us shes left nothing
We cant take her to court either because they'll just say that my brothers an adult becauses hes over 18
You deserve a stable place to grow up. I know you're 16 and might feel like an adult ... but trust me ... you still need someone to guide and support you.
If your family isn't doing that, then maybe involving child protection services is your best bet.
Give them a ring and explain the situation. Maybe, at the least, hearing from them will scare your mother straight ... or get her some much needed help.
Best of luck to you. Wishing you peace and healing.
Are there any help agencies where you are?
Your brother may be over 18, but he wasnt born responsible for the rest of you either. I admier the both of you tremendously. I hope you apply for help for food and other things. You need it.
Forgive me for being so angry at your mother. I dont understand her.
i dont eat much anyway it doesnt really matter.. iv eaten breakfast and lunch today at work but not dinner.. i dont understand why shes left me?.. maybe because i always stop her from drinking.. i know you may think this is silly & tell me i'll change my mind but i dont want her in my life anymore.. shes caused enough trouble for me over the past 2 years and i cant do it anymore.. Im scared i'll become ill and i really dont want that.. that happened to my dad but now hes away from her hes fine.. how do i tell her its over so that she actually understands that i mean it? me & my dad are moving soon so that should help too..